In Solitude, Storr cites Winnicott in suggesting the developmental capacity of being in solitude while with others. When we self-author and do not follow inertia or protocols, we check our faculty for meaning. We look for solitude daily when we pause (/in a call) or contemplate halfway through a conversation.
The more I talk about mediation, creativity, and communication, the clearer that solitude is the opposite destination of mediation.
Technology, media, and solutioning move towards the other, in clarity – while solitude authors meaning and make us jump out of bed in the morning.
Tactically, I am experimenting with this by prompting others to viscerally describe (/design) their faculty of thinking and create one-person breakout rooms.
Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi in his book on Creativity, said that the most successfully creative people tend to be polar, they are strong in opposite traits. They would not occupy any middle ground between mediation and solitude, they would be strong in both and able to occupy either and both worlds adeptly.